Shoes and Condoms

I love shoes! Even though I typically have 3 pairs that get all the attention. I still love my heals and pretty shoes. The ones I love the most are high price names I get a low prices. Point in case my Kate Spade red shoes originally $350.00 I got them for $65.00. Don't know what it is about a great pair of shoes that can just make for a better day.

I started to think a couple months back about how much money we spent on birth control over the last 10 years of our relationship. Drum roll...$4,050. That is a hell of a lot of shoes! It's not like we have been able to parlay our birth control money into shoes the fertility treatments have cost and will cost more then the birth control piggy bank. So, for now the shoes will have to wait. I won't lie looking forward to buying baby occupant shoes one day!

Perspective

You're not pregnant.

You're pregnant.

It's crazy that 2 sentences changed by 1 word can change someone's life. I remember the days when a negative pregnancy test was a sigh of relief. But, it's all about perspective. I waited, married my best friend, we waited and now that we are ready to be parents while were still waiting. From my perspective waiting for the right occupant.

I have another month to be a DINK. What should I do on the list first. The rebel with a cause in me is thinking about the tattoo! Stay tuned to ink or not to ink that is the question.